>> I've thought of a boot manager but don't know much about them
"EasyBCD" should be able to solve the boot problem. (You only need to load it onto one of the OS)
Which has been discussed in previous threads here.
http://download.cnet.com/EasyBCD/3000-2094_4-10556865.htmlDon't you get the option of which OS to boot into when the PC starts to boot-up? (see time allowed below)
Do you have the option of changing the boot sequence from within:
"Startup and Recovery"
Go to:-
Control Panel > System > "select the Advanced tab" select the "Settings" button for "Startup and Recovery" then click the drop-down button for "Default operating system"
Also from within here you can change the "Time to display list of operating systems" during the boot sequence.
(Default is 30 seconds, but in EasyBCD I have mine set at 5 seconds)
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